Mood swings: Give them a push in the right direction

Overnight, her hormones may seem to have turned her into a different person. Her moods can swing from one extreme to the other, all within an instant. While you may not be able to stop the swings, you can help her find ways to stay "up" and even them out. Remember:

It's natural that she starts questioning authority and testing limits on a daily basis. Increase her freedom and responsibilities, but remind her that you make the rules.

Be patient and remain in control. As you continue to strengthen your connection with her, her feelings about authority, safety and responsibility will change many times.

Assure her that what she's feeling, physically and emotionally, is a normal part of growing up. The more you talk, the more she can recognize and cope with the upcoming changes.